关于No man is an Island的英文演讲

关于No man is an Island的英文演讲
关于No man is an Island的英文演讲

关于No man is an Island的英文演讲
原文：“No man is an island” is a well-known line from John Donne’s Devotion,written more than three hundred years ago.Even now people still agree with him.No one can live a completely isolated life.Without other people,life became empty and sad.We all need friends.
For some of us,though making friends is not difficult,feeling shy,we may not want to make the first move.It is also difficult at times to keep the friends we already have.
There are many books about friendship,but Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People,written in 1936,is the most famous.This “ how to” book about getting along with other people became a best-seller.It was later put into 28 languages.
Dale Carnegie’s advice seems to be simple,but can his advice help you?Do you need to change the way you act?Here is the list of advice from his book.
1 Be friendly and polite.
Always greet with a smile.Begin with “excuse me” or “would you please”,when you want to ask somebody.Remember to say “think you” and try to be as helpful as you can.
2 Go out of your way to be nice.
Find some time to do special things for other people.Making some soup for a sick neighbor may seem like a little thing to you,but it will make your neighbor feel a lot better.
Remember names.
They say that the sweetest music to a person’s ears is the sound of his or her own name.
Be open-minded.
Try to understand other people’s ways and ideas and learn something from them.
Listen patiently
When someone is talking to you,look at him or her,listen carefully and say something when necessary.
翻译：“没有人是一座孤岛.”是一个很好的知道约翰夫人的虔诚,超过三百年前写的.人们现在也同意他仍然.没有人可以过一种完全与世隔绝的生活.没有其他的人,生活变得空虚而难过.我们都需要朋友.我们中的一些人,尽管交朋友并不难,我感到,我们可能不想迈出第一步.它也很难让我已交的朋友.有许多关于友谊的书,但是卡耐基是如何赢得朋友和影响他人,写在1936,最著名的是.这个“如何”与人交往的书成了畅销书.随后被翻译成28种语言.Dale卡耐基的建议很简单.但他的建议能帮助你吗?你需要改变你的行为方式?这是从他的书中的建议名单：1.友善和礼貌.总是笑脸相迎.从“对不起!“或”你介意……?什么时候.记得说“谢谢你”.并尽你所能的帮助.2.走你自己的路是很好的.找些时间为别人做特别的事.为生病的邻居煲汤也许对你来说微不足道,但它会让你的邻居感觉好多了.3.记住人的名字.他们说,一个人的耳朵最甜美的音乐是他或她自己的名字的声音.4.想开点吧.试着去理解其他人的方法和思路,从他们身上学到的东西.5.耐心聆听.当有人和你说话的时候,看他或她,仔细听,必要的时候说点什么.